see that little one looking up at the camera? that's Lily. She is another volunteer. Above, Cathy, her mom- saying, "what, what do you want from me?" in the back is Dad, Phil and of course, Lily in his arms. Left photo is us in a relaxed moment at Lily's first birthday party. They had a few months home already- enough time to recover from their trip and the help they gave us. These guys helped in many ways and still do-for example: I would never be trying this blog if it weren't for Cathy's friendship and support. many, many thanks, Cathy.

Still, the heaviest volunteering by far was lugging 60 lbs of books -hot off the presses- plus vietnam/usa ao dai's and 200 handpainted dragonflys!!!! Now imagine volunteering to do that- and travel back with your infant child!!! Yes, they lugged those heavy books in additon to the delicate dragonflys- did I say they packed all this as well, and our new ao dai's plus baby stuff and gift stuff to bring back to (almost grown) son Nick, grandparents, friends and so on. what a wonderful cast of characters we have! and there are more....